بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم
Assalamualaikum~~
good day arr ! ^_^
ok..Anger is a secret weapon of man towards of evils but sometimes its result’s in the destruction of many noble qualities.
It snatches away the wisdom of man and thus he becomes a brute beast devoid of any sense.
Anger is a temptation of shaytaan and deception of shaytaan
Anger is the root of all evils.
Anger is a spark of fire that are always bursting.
Anger is a very bad condition that weakens the person Iman (FAITH)
The meaning of anger is a rage fierce, displeasure, passion excited by a sense of wrong , physical pain, inflammation, mad, hot tempered, choleric, inflamed, A violent passion excited by real or supposed injury.
Anger is the strong feeling caused by extreme displeasure.
Anger is a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure and hostility.
Allah Ta'ala has said:
"Those who repress anger, and who pardon men: verily, Allah loves the good-doers."
[Surah Al-Imran – Ayah 134.]
Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that a man said to the Prophet (saws), “Advise me.” He said, “Do not become angry.” The man repeated his request several times, and each time the Prophet (saws) told him, “Do not become angry.”(Reported by al-Bukhari, Fath al-Baaree, 10/456)
According to another report, the man said: “I thought about what the Prophet (saws) said, and I realized that anger combines all kinds of evil.”(Musnad Ahmad, 5/373)
Anas reported that the Prophet (saws) passed by some people who were wrestling. He asked, “What is this?” They said: “So-and-so is the strongest, he can beat anybody.” The Prophet (saws) said, “Shall I not tell you who is even stronger then... him? The man who, when he is mistreated by another, controls his anger, has defeated his own Shaytan and the Shaytan of the one who made him angry.”(Reported by al-Bazzaar, and Ibn Hajr said its isnaad is saheeh. Al-Fath, 10/519)
Allah said to His Prophet (saws) (interpretation of the meaning): ‘Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the foolish’ [al-A‘raaf 7:199].
"Say: "O ye my servants who believe! Fear your Lord: Good is (the reward) for those who do good in this world. Spacious is Allah's earth! Those who patiently persevere will truly receive a reward without measure!" [Surah Az-Zumar: 10]
♥-✿-♥ " TIPS FOR CONTROLING ANGER !! ” ♥-✿-♥
• Prophet (PBUH) said, "Beware of anger, for it is a live coal on the heart of the descendant of Adam. Do you not notice the swelling of the veins of his neck and the redness of his eyes? So when anyone experiences anything of that nature he should lie down and cleave to the earth" (Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 5145).
•When angry, change the position or situation
It was further elaborated by Allah's Messenger (PBUH), "If one of you becomes angry while standing he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good; otherwise he should lie down" (Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 5114).
• Make wudhoo and tell them you will continue the discuss etc once they have made wudhoo.The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “When one of you gets angry, let him make ablution with water as anger arises out of fire.”
•Emphasis the virtues of patience.
The Prophet (peace be upon him said): “The strong is not the one who over comes the people by his strength” “But the strong is the one who controls him while in anger.” (Bukhari)
• “relax” and not to talk until the anger has subsided.
The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any of you becomes angry, let him keep silent.” (Imaam Ahmad)
•Seek refuge in Allah from Satan read
"Authobillahiminash shaytanir razeem"
'I seek Refuge with Allah from Satan.'
Bukhari :: Volume 4:: Book 54 :: Hadith 502
Narrated Sulaiman bin Surd:
While I was sitting in the company of the Prophet (Peace be upon him), two men abused each other and the face of one of them became red with anger, and his jugular veins swelled (i.e. he became furious). On that the Prophet (Peace be upon him) said, "I know a word, the saying of which will cause him to relax, if he does say it. If he says: 'I seek Refuge with Allah from Satan.' then all is anger will go away." Some body said to him, "The Prophet (Peace be upon him) has said, 'Seek refuge with Allah from Satan."' The angry man said, "Am I mad?"
• Qadr, whatever happens it is because Allah Most High has allowed it to happen and one will be rewarded for being patient.
Please note : Teaching your children from an early age how to view and manage anger will given them many advantages for their future and inshaAllah, their personality will be one of pleasantness and sanity, their ethics will be high and they will be free from psychological deficiencies.
"Angers begin with madness and end with regret"
~ Ali ibn abu talib
so..jangan marah2 yaw... senyum mcm POCOYO.. ngee~~ sweet je
The Power of Controlling Anger on Quran Weekly By Nouman Ali Khan
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